New answer to “How do we overcome the regret of feeling we’ve wasted too many years?”

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New answer to “”How do we overcome the regret of feeling we’ve wasted too many years?””

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How do we overcome the regret of feeling we’ve wasted too many years?
Rahul Tiwari
Rahul Tiwari, Trying to be a better Engineer
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If you feel that you have wasted so many years doing something or not doing something, just look back again, this time with different perspective. There is no such thing as wasted years, you always do what you like. I was given a great advice from someone that “”never regret your past decisions, at that time that is exactly what you wanted.”” And that is one hell of an advice, it changes your perspective of looking at your past.
One can apply this to anything, in this situation also. You regret wasted years, just think at what activity you feel they got wasted, may be sleeping too much, procrastinating, not doing anything for your health and there must be endless things depending on person. Now think what exactly you were doing, sleeping, it is good for your health. Procrastinating, doing what, may be watching TV series, or funny videos…but they gave you happiness at that time and you might have learned somethings from watching stuff. Another example, not taking care of your health, think again, what were you doing, eating junk food, it gave you pleasure, right?
So if you look it into this way, they will not seem totally wasted. Now when you feel somewhat good about yourself, write down (it is very important…writing down) what you might be doing in past which you can still do, so you won’t have any more future regrets. It may be exercising, working on a project, learning new skill, it can be anything. Start working on it immediately and continue working on it. And if at any time you feel not doing it think of the time when you posted this question. Scold yourself , discipline yourself and move forward. The thing is, you cannot change past or “”wasted years””, however you can look back to positive side of it. And then work on those things NOW… so you do not have to ask this question in future.
May the force be with you…
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How do we overcome the regret of feeling we’ve wasted too many years?
Vichitra Zawar
Vichitra Zawar, I’m Jon snow, I know nothing!
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I have used it once, this is valid here again. Quoting from Adam Levine’s Lost Star,
Who are we? Just a speck of dust within the galaxy!
Millions of Galaxy. Each Galaxy has millions of stars. Each planet has it’s own planetary system. Each Planet has a number of continents, a number of countries, states, districts, cities, towns, houses, member, one out of it is you! Earth is just a dot! Who are you? Not more than a dust particle. What do you regret? Does it even matter? Your loss doesn’t matter, neither does your win.
Your pain doesn’t matter, neither does your comfort.
Your love doesn’t matter, neither does your hate.
And the list can go on to infinity. WHAT do you regret if you don’t matter? Still got the regret, you are contributing more to the time you lost. Wake up! Make yourself useful. You want to die satisfactorily? Give the mankind, more than it gives you. Stop regretting! You are just a speck of dust, who matters to a handful people around you. Make yourself useful for them. Humans are born to create, not to regret!
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How do we overcome the regret of feeling we’ve wasted too many years?
Rajat Sen
Rajat Sen
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This particular Chinese Proverb helps me to get over my regrets and to focus on what’s left and what can be done to improve the remaining years of my life.
Our life is just like planting a tree(it could be your business,job or anything), maybe 20 years ago was the best time to do that but it is gone, it’s never gonna come back. The best time is now which also depends on how,when, why and where you are going to plant your tree, that will benefit you, you family or your children after some years. Maybe, people who planted the tree before were not taking this much care of the tree, but you can. You can work hard, smart and provide the best plantation techniques, best security or maybe anything that makes the tree grow taller with its roots being stronger. If you do it now, you will still be ahead of the person who will do this 5 years later, or even 1 hour later but if you won’t, just remember, someone else is busy right now planting his or her tree. So, get up, forget the past years and work your ass off to make your coming years as awesome as you can and may be after 10 or 12 years, you would think that yes, I took the right decision at the right time and there won’t be no regrets. TECHNICAL STUFF: Forget the past just like a RAM clear its memory for the new processes, removing old processes which are not useful now, because the program currently in execution will only give you the desired result, not the one which has been removed.
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risposta ġdida għal “”Kif nistgħu jingħelbu l dispjaċir ta ‘sensazzjoni konna jinħela wisq snin?””

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Kif nistgħu jingħelbu l dispjaċir ta ‘sensazzjoni konna jinħela wisq snin?
Rahul Tiwari
Rahul Tiwari, Jippruvaw li jkun Inġinier aħjar
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Jekk inti tħoss li inti għandek moħlija tant snin tagħmel xi ħaġa jew le tagħmel xi ħaġa, biss ħarsa lura, din id-darba ma ‘perspettiva differenti. M’hemm l-ebda ħaġa bħal snin moħlija, inti dejjem tagħmel dak li tixtieq. I ingħata parir kbira minn xi ħadd li “”qatt dispjaċir deċiżjonijiet tal-passat tiegħek, f’dak iż-żmien li huwa eżattament dak li riedu.”” U li huwa wieħed enfer ta ‘pariri, tbiddel perspettiva tiegħek ta’ tħares lejn passat tiegħek.
Wieħed jista ‘japplika dan xejn, f’din is-sitwazzjoni wkoll. Inti dispjaċir snin moħlija, just think lejn dak l-attività li tħoss li huma ltqajna moħlija, jista ‘jiġi irqad wisq, procrastinating, ma tagħmel xejn għas-saħħa tiegħek u għandu jkun hemm affarijiet bla tmiem jiddependi fuq il-persuna. Issa jaħsbu dak eżattament li inti kienu qed jagħmlu, irqad, huwa tajjeb għas-saħħa tiegħek. Procrastinating, tagħmel dak, jista ‘jiġi jaraw serje TV, jew umoristiċi videos … iżda dawn taw inti kuntentizza dak iż-żmien u inti jista’ jkollok tgħallmu somethings minn jaraw Jittieħed. Eżempju ieħor, mhux qed tieħu kura tas-saħħa tiegħek, think again, dak inti kienu qed jagħmlu, tiekol junk food, huwa ħadt pjaċir, id-dritt?
Mela jekk inti tħares fis dan il-mod, dawn mhux se jidhru totalment moħlija. Issa meta inti tħossok kemmxejn tajjeb dwarek innifsek, ikteb l (li huwa importanti ħafna … bil-miktub stabbiliti) dak li inti tista ‘tagħmel fil-passat fejn inti xorta tista’ tagħmel, sabiex inti mhux se jkollhom xi jiddispjaċih aktar fil-futur. Jista ‘jkun li jeżerċitaw, li jaħdmu fuq proġett, it-tagħlim ħiliet ġodda, jista’ jkun xejn. Bidu jaħdmu fuqu immedjatament u tkompli taħdem fuq dan. U jekk fi kwalunkwe ħin tħossok ma nagħmilx hekk jaħsbu mill-ħin meta inti stazzjonati din il-mistoqsija. Scold lilek innifsek, dixxiplina lilek innifsek u jimxu ‘l quddiem. Il-ħaġa hija, inti ma tistax tbiddel “”snin moħlija””-passat jew, madankollu inti tista ‘tfittex lura għall-naħa pożittiva ta’ dan. U mbagħad jaħdmu fuq dawk l-affarijiet ISSA … sabiex inti ma għandekx tistaqsi din il-mistoqsija fil-futur.
Mejju, il-forza tkun miegħek …
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